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The Biggest Engagement Ring Mistakes I See (And How to Avoid Them)

Choosing an engagement ring is about more than finding a style you love. After years of making and repairing bespoke rings, I’ve seen the same mistakes come up time and again. From ultra thin bands to overlooking everyday practicality, here are the biggest engagement ring mistakes I see, and how to avoid them so your ring is built to last a lifetime.

The Biggest Engagement Ring Mistakes I See (And How to Avoid Them)

28 July 2026

Bespoke three stone engagement ring with an oval diamond, pear side stones and loose diamonds on jewellery design sketches in a goldsmith's workshop — Every bespoke engagement ring begins with an idea. Design sketches, carefully selected diamonds and thoughtful craftsmanship all come together before the ring reaches the workshop bench.

2. Prioritising Diamond Size Over Overall Design

It’s easy to focus on carat weight.

After all, it’s the figure everyone talks about.

But a well-proportioned 1.0ct diamond will usually look far more impressive than a poorly cut 1.3ct stone.

The setting matters just as much.

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